but what is peculiar to me is how many white men like decidedly white attributes on a black woman such as a medium to small nose lengthy hair and a thin shape.
ive even heard some coin mi speech and mannerisms as educated and white therefore attractive. yet they harp on mi black features as exotic particularly mi cheekbones lips complexion and backside strange no? i suppose that the males ive encountered prefer some sort of middleground when dating out.
i do understand that black men have had their masculinity stripped from them by whites.
i do understand that for some relief and psychological salvation black men have had to form their own idealogy of what it means to be a be rejected not only because you bring the same involuntarily shouldered burdens to the relationship as the man but also the additional burdens of his neglect hostility and exploitation has often been too much for black women to bear.
although i have opened my mind to the possibility of keeping company with a white man there has been no positive experience that i can call on to assist me in turning my mojo in their direction.