Now, like the previous paragraph, if you are in this friendationship for selfish reasons, that is something you have to talk with God about. If you are not headed towards a committed relationship, then share some things that need to change.
But for most women, they are simply in it, waiting on the man to change. And worse case, he may start actually dating someone. You never asked to define your relationship and you never talked about boundaries, so you have no grounds to ask why. Be honest and let them know that you enjoyed these things but know without both of you committing to real relationship that could lead toward marriage, it's not healthy and could be dangerous.
Ephesians -16 Ephesians -16Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ. Dangerous in not only unrealistic expectations but also in where it could lead physically. You have to take responsibility of protecting yourself. This will help "define your relationship.” Plus, check out my site for a huge list of other resources to help define your relationship as well as personal growth.
From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work.). I know firsthand the value of those serious talks with your friends. There is no value to either party, only eventual hurt and pain. If you both agree that marriage might be in your future, take the steps toward that. Remember, while you are in these "friendationships" you may miss an opportunity for the right person to come along, simply because they think you are dating someone else. I value all my friendships with men as I believe the Lord gives us specific guidance regarding opposite sex friendships.
They seriously thought, one day he will just change and be in love with me.
In the meantime, I will allow our friendship to be a bit more.
Proverbs 3:5-6 Proverbs 3:5-6Trust in the Lord and do good; dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture.