But if I'm going to find out what really makes these women tick, I need to leave the safety of the virtual world and see them for myself. I arrange to meet a 41-year-old mother of two who misses "romance and flirting", in a cafe in two days' time.
She has declined to tell me her name, so I have to think of her as her web sobriquet.
What it boils down to is whether or not you believe you can find someone compatible with you, and whether or not you have the skill set of active listening.
Getting outside of your head, any insecurities, and removing listening blocks is half the battle.
In order to fit in with the general ethos of the website I have invented a wife.