They like having women contacting them…even if they are rejecting all of them as it makes them feel desirable.
Silly logic aside, I would ask any reader who has this issue the same thing I asked the woman who contacted me: are the two of you EXCLUSIVE and have you both made it clear that you are only interested in dating each other?
Until the conversation happens, I would say it is fair for a guy to keep his profile up.
We have a great time together and he calls every night to chat or say goodnight.
I am really interested in him and I get the feeling that he feels the same way.
For the last few months this has been by far the question I’ve received most often from readers.