I tell you this not to come off as negative but to share with you a harsh reality.
Regardless you continue to deal with him and it’s like you two are basically in a relationship.
You hang out, talk, and do things that a girlfriend does which leaves you wondering where his head is really at.
For some of you it’s cool but for many of you a relationship is what you truly desire.
Whenever you want to discuss becoming his girlfriend and taking things to the next level, this man insists he is not looking for a relationship. too busy, emotionally unavailable, past hurt, etc) he doesn’t budge from his position of not wanting a girlfriend right now.
Most men can enjoy your company yet never want to be in a serious relationship with you.