For more detailed information on Medellin, read my Medellin Datasheeet.Girls from Medellin “Paisas” are proud of their culture, music, food and language. I have been flaked on in Colombia too many times to count.
I said I was relaxing at my pool and she was welcome to stop by. (note: I put had a few Skype session prior to meeting in person).
This example is to illustrate the the flakiness of Medellin culture and how circumstances are ever-changing. A man with an appealing online profile can easy set up multiple dates.
And it’s not frowned upon here the way it is back in the UK. It’s the opposite here – no matter how hard the guy tries to fight it, there’s a machista part of him that wants you to hold out and let him chase you. What would pass for light hearted banter in the UK, might well make a Colombian question his own masculinity. If you’re young, free and single in a city like Bogotá, the world is your About Harriet Marsden Alongside her university studies which focused on Latin American literature and culture, Harriet Marsden has lived and worked in Costa Rica, Bolivia and Colombia.
In the world of dating in Colombian women, it is fine to be a worldly, confident beta and to compliment a woman.
It seems to be a match made in heaven – the Colombian males, who are fascinated with foreign women, and the young English girls, who are 6,000 miles away from home for the first time. It’s fair to say that for people in their early twenties in England, dating culture hasn’t really taken off – at least, not like it has in America.