Baptist view on teen dating

Any form of questioning is considered an act of rebellion and the person is chastised for question the authority of the leaders.

This “guilt trip” suppresses the person normal God given intuition that something doesn’t quite feel right about the church.

In the church I was in growing up it wasn’t out right taught but the message was clear that if you didn’t go to an Independent Fundamental Baptist Denomination you were not only decieved and sinnful, but also your salvation was questionable.

Baptist view on teen dating

Victims are often depressed about their inability to live up to those rules and standards, worried that they aren’t pleasing the Lord, and frustrated that they keep sinning.

Victims often feel that they aren’t good enough and not able to live up to the expectations.

When your words and actions tear down another, or attack or weaken a person’s standing as a Christian- to gratify you, your position or your beliefs while at the same time weakening or harming another- that is spiritual abuse.” One of the biggest problems with spiritual abuse is that it is VERY subtle. Pastors and other spiritual leaders become adept at using spcipture to back up their subtle manipulation and control.

Leaders often find ways to control, not only what happens in their churches, but also what happens in Your personal life.

Spiritual abuse includes, but is not limited to mind-control, thought reform, coercion, manipulation, deception, legalism, authoritarianism, guilt trips, judgementalism/”Phariseeism”, holier-than-though attitude, and a “we are right and everyone else is wrong” attitude.

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